It's that time again......Personal Commitment to Self Time

Here we are again.  It is the end of 2013 and we are about to embark upon 2014.  The question in the air - as it always is, this time  the year - is What are your New Year Resolutions going to be??  My answer will be the same as last year.  I do not make New Years Resolutions, instead I make Personal Commitments to Self. What will I personally commit to doing for ME as I enter a New Year.  I know it sounds selfish but bear with me.

Most people can write down a laundry list of resolutions that they forget within the first two weeks.  One might mention it to others, but the follow through is often non-existent. Drinking less, not working too late, reading more, cooking more, etc.  - these are some of the resolutions my friends are sharing with me. While all of these things are good, they speak to behaviors and not to the core of what are you going to do for YOU. 

Will you decide to help others less fortunate than you?  This will enhance your attitude of gratitude.  Will you teach someone a skill that can better their chances of survival in today's world? This will enhance your feeling of self worth and helping create a kinder society. Will you pitch in when you see another person struggling?  The opportunity to give a helping hand and teach someone to work smarter and not harder, just might make you do the same.  These are just a few examples of what we can do as a personal commitment to self to enhance our lives from within.   There is nothing wrong with drinking less, cooking more or making more time for self and doing the things you love to do, but we should incorporate sharing ourselves by volunteering and giving back, for that inner glow.

My personal commitment to self is to mentor a budding gardener and show him or her the joy of working with their hands. This will enable me to share a gift given to me by my parents. I will help another person enhance their skill set to empower his/her spirit and better their future.  After all, optimism breeds effort. I will help out at a shelter or food bank, so that the less than fortunate can be served. I will also, share in the growth of my community, to make it the best community in the area.  I will also teach myself a new skill - felting.  So I can use fibers to share all of the beauty that surrounds me.  Even while doing these things, I will also make more meaningful time for me.  Sharing is a beautiful thing and I am all about all things beautiful.....and dreaming about Parisian gardens, of course!

Thoughts On Color In The Winter Garden

The winter garden is visually perceived as only having shades of brown and green, dormant is the term most often used in the horticultural world. 

I urge folks to go outside in the winter , take a walk, walk in the woods, the park or in your own backyard.  Enjoy more than just the briskness of the air and the sound of the leaves beneath your feet.  Instead pay attention to the colors that are still surrounding you - even in the midst of winter.

If you take a look at the shades of rusty red, shimmering golds, deep velvety greens and frosty blue/greys that accent the winter garden, you would begin to realize that winter is merely Act IV of the play called "The Garden".  A few plants that come to mind to embrace this thought are as follows:

Rusty Reds - Larch, Red Twig Dogwood, Epimediums, Nandina;

Shimmering Golds - Golden D'Odor Cedar, Variegated Euonymous, Yellow Twig Dogwood, Gold Mop Cypress;

Deep Velvety Greens - Camellias, Winter Gem Boxwood's, Curly Leaved Ligustrum, Native Hollies:

Lastly the Frosty Blue/Grey's - Caryopteris, Artemesia's, Perovska, Blue Atlas Cedars

It is truly amazing how winter's chill enhances the landscape.  A shrub that is not a focal point throughout the rest of the year is rarely noticed when the garden is in full bloom.  I actually embrace the winter garden and it's nakedness - yet colorful beauty. One can see the structure of certain plant material (usually trees and shrubs) and can visualize how to enhance or expand an existing flower bed. 

As I walk through my front garden, on the left side, the knobby limbs of three tree peonies stand tall amidst  a mulched perennial flower bed.  The window box over flowing with orange and purple pansies and the deep green liriope skirt that caresses the front of the short walk way leading to the parking pad, are the only touches of color on this side. 

On the right side, two Camellia's stand like body guards beside the chartreuse branches of the weeping Japanese maple, which actually pop with color against the white walls of my cottage.  A sleeping cherub statue rests at the base of this dwarf tree amidst a sea of ruby leaved Epimedeum's, deep mocha leaved heuchera's, bright green ruffled leaves of English Primrose and Hellebore Orientalis (both of which are in bloom) and honey brown fern leaves.  The Japanese maple, whose maze of branches appears to be protecting the invisible inhabitants  - ginger, astible, assorted hosta and bleeding heart  - has the two Camellia's that flank each side, while attempting to hold onto the fading pink blossoms from the season past. 

This is like intermission at the theater....you know the next act will complete the show.  Subtle color in the winter garden peaks ones interest of things to come....